People come people go. 盛大开放!

开学这么久，都还是昏昏沉沉的，然后又把图书卡弄丢了，更多个借口不去学习。星期六星期天总是忙碌的，可是最不好的是要自己一个人吃饭。这世界上我最恨的事情就是自己一个人吃饭。这时候脑海里就会想到JUSTIN说的话，他说我太TOUGH 了，之类的吧，太努力地朝着梦想冲，忽略了身边的人（特指男生），所以我才会好久没拖拍。ANYWAY，我莫名其妙地听了他的话，和男生（或男人，哈！ 大家都知道我区分BOY AND MAN的界线拉）发信息，打电话或是出去吃饭。不过就是倒头的听了他的话啦，搞得我变得SOFT了，NOT AT LEAST INDEPENDENT。
看了DIRT深有感触，恐怕颇多人都不喜欢这部片（BLUE？ YEAH， BUT JUST A LITTLE BIT。）我是喜欢LUCY啦，够CLEVER，够BOLD 当然还有UTTERLY TOUGH。根本不需要男人，也可以那么尽情地享受生活。当然后来她有和HOLT来电，不过她真的死鬼那么厉害吖，PROPERLY DEALS WITH THOSE LOVE STUFFS。就像和柯去看DEVIL WEARS PRADA，走出电影院柯就直截了当地说，如果她是女主人公，她就不会离开FASHION界，一定干下去。哈哈，我立刻就笑了。我说，拜拖你隐晦一点好不好，毕竟那是心狠手辣的角色。当然心里还是会在狂感叹，真不愧是那么多年的死党吖，人生观和生活态度都那么一致。 好贴心吖！（哎，也不知道是谁影响谁的，也许多年后，我们真得会变成TOUGH到给人骂死的女人~P。）

喜欢一个人和爱一个人的区别

喜欢一个人，在一起时会很开心
爱一个人，在一起的时候，会莫名的失落

喜欢一个人，你不会想到你们的将来
爱一个人，你们常常在一起憧憬明天

喜欢一个人，在一起的时候永远是欢乐
爱一个人，你会常常流泪

喜欢一个人，当你们好久不见，你会突然想起他
爱一个人，当你们好久不见，你会天天想着他

喜欢一个人，当你想起他，你会微微一笑
爱一个人，当你想起他，你会对着天空发呆

喜欢一个人，你会想,他有了孩子，你一定会很喜欢，
爱一个人，会有一天，你突然很好奇：将来我们的孩子会是什么样子

喜欢一个人就是希望大家都开心
爱一个人希望他会更开心

喜欢一个人，你要得只是今天
爱一个人，你期望的是永远

喜欢一个人，是看到了他的优点
爱一个人，是包容了他的缺点

喜欢和爱的区别就在于：

当你站在你爱的人面前,你的心跳会加速
当你与你爱的人四目交投,你会害羞

但当你站在你喜欢的人面前,你只感到开心
但当你与你喜欢的人四目交投,你只会微笑.
　　　　
当你与你爱的人对话,你觉得难以启齿
当你爱的人哭,你会陪她一起哭

但当你和你喜欢的人对话,你可以畅所欲言
但当你喜欢的人哭,你会技巧的安慰她.
　　　　
当你不想再爱一个人,你要闭上眼睛并忍着泪水
当你不想再喜欢一个人,你只要掩住双耳!
　　　
喜欢，是一种心情
爱，是一种感情

喜欢，是一种直觉
爱，是一种感觉

喜欢，可以停止
爱，没有休止

喜欢一个人，特别自然
爱一个人，特别坦然

喜欢一个人，有时候盼和他在一起
爱一个人，有时候怕和他在一起

喜欢一个人，不停的和他争执
爱一个人，不停的为他付出

喜欢一个人，希望他可以随时找到自己
爱一个人，希望可以随时找到他

喜欢一个人，总是为他而笑
爱一个人，总是为他而哭

喜欢，是执着
爱，是值得

喜欢就是喜欢，很简单
爱就是爱，很复杂

喜欢你，却不一定爱你
爱你，就一定很喜欢你

其实，喜欢和爱仅一步之遥
但，想要迈这一步就看你
是喜欢迈这一步
还是爱迈这一步 

We Are What We Are

It’s widely known that plastic surgery is prosperous in Korea and the world’s biggest market for plastic surgery is in the United States. But how many of us realize actually the market in China is booming. Statistics from the China Plastic Cosmetology Committee show there are more than 10,000 medical institutions carrying out procedures throughout the country. Revenues of about 2 billion yuan (US$240 million) have piled up since procedures were first offered in the country. All these statistics and those cosmetic beauty contests suggest plastic surgery has been involved in the Chinese people’s life. Although the trend will go on, I hold the belief that we should be what we are. Plastic surgery is just not necessary.

I’m not totally against plastic surgery. When it comes to alleviating certain deformities like a club foot or lengthening on leg so it is equal to the other, I’m fine with that. This is something that enhances a person’s overall quality of life. If it’s a health issue, go ahead and have it. But when it comes to the issue to be prettier or perfection, I don’t see the necessity.

Many plastic surgery supporters lay the argument that as beauty does matter in our era, such as in a job interview or business negotiation meeting, pretty appearances always can enjoy more favor, plastic surgery is needed. But that’s not the whole thing, because the loss suffering from plastic surgery outweighs the benefits one can get from it.

First of all, judgments of beauty differ from time to time and between cultures. What is fashion today may be dull tomorrow. Take the tattoo eyebrow for example. It flourished through the 1990s in China, but people today think it ugly. And also, while Sex and the City suggests men in Manhattan become more interested in women with small breasts, women in China have just realized their breasts are not big enough. Besides, pretty faces are not always popular in any business situations. For some industry, pretty appearances are regarded as not professional. Managers would rather select those with great work passion and serious attitude. As it’s not feasible to have plastic surgery every time the fashion changes, or to specifically meets someone’s satisfaction, stay what we are is the only long-term strategy.

Secondly, people love us for just what we are. We are all unique. Some have thin lips some have thick. Some smile with tidy teeth some with dimples. Although it’s not perfect, that’s the impression we left to others. Try to imagine, at your funeral, do you want to hear comments from others about you as “she has pretty face, hot body; she says things people like to hear, but actually I don’t think I really know her”, or as “she’s a lady with very small eyes. You know that’s the first impression she left. Later I found her very straightforward that I even quarreled with her several times. But I guess I have already started to miss her. I would never forget her”? Nowadays, people are too dedicated to disguise themselves that they feel lonely and isolated much more than before. Psychologists and social experts strongly advocate city residents should open themselves to reveal what they are. So why go further to make things worse? To put on a physical mask would just be more isolated.

Last but not least, our features are the composite result of two peoples’ combined DNA. We can find our parents’ features in our faces and our children can find similarities in comparison of theirs and ours. This is what we call kindred. It provides security that suggests we are never alone. Plastic surgery will just blur the feeling of belonging.

In conclusion, plastic surgery makes people suffer from the changes of judgment of beauty, lose personality and increase feelings of isolating. It’s the wrong way to access beauty. If people want to be prettier, there’re lots of alternatives. Think of the world’s top models, they either have distant eyes or anisomerous ears. Though they are never born beauties they have the ability to devise people’s judgments. Why? Because they have good fashion sense and know how to make use of cosmetics and clothes to exert their personality. And also, people by practicing good dietary and exercise habits, would be alright-looking. Not great-looking like those movie stars, of course, but decent. Imperfection is beauty. Stay what we are is always the best.

放假后的我，有时会收到信息说寒假有什么活动搞，真的很感谢亲爱的你们还会记得我，只是今年要做差不多一个寒假的小奴隶了。在事务所义务实习，几乎每天做一家公司的审计底稿，8个小时的高度紧张，一个科目下来不知不觉就天黑了——哇，苦命吖~！然后做到胃溃疡，在家休息了一天~偷懒哦。才知道原来是那么容易胃溃疡的。现在嘛，好很多了，我是适应能力超强的人嘛，哈哈，今天做“其他应收”还是蛮爽的。最可恶的是一个星期只有星期天可以休息，星期六好象已经变成“法定工作日”了，呜~所以哦如果我在去年有承诺要请谁吃饭的，只能和我约星期天咯，同学聚会也星期天就好。然后嘛，那个突然蹦出来的苏杨，亏他还跟我同年同月同日生，果树眼都比他默契一百倍，他喜欢的都是我不喜欢的，VISE VISA，那就不要装作有很多东西说好啦，话不投机三句多（MADE BY MONEY）。 有时候，在累得一摊东西的时候，在自己走在灯花灿烂的回家的路上的时候，会想哭，然后问老天说到底我的梦想有多重？也有时候会自己缩在沙发里自怜自艾，觉得自己什么都没有，只剩下一个皱巴巴的憧憬了……卡卡，还真是悲伤啊。 不过当然动力还是十足的，因为每每这个时候就会想起参加奥运志愿者启动仪式时，陈晓敏说的话。她是2000年悉尼奥运女子63公斤级的冠军哦。 她说当她知道她那一举杠铃得了冠军的时候，她开心地跳了起来。主持人问她，“那你为那一跳准备了多少年”，她说：“十年”。……超级感动啊，我眼泪都掉下来了。你们啊，要是有谁要想放弃，想想吧，其实那不算什么，我们的梦想没有我们所想的那么重。

这个城市的爱情
    我不确定那种花样年华的青涩爱情在我们这个年纪还存不存在，只是突然间好象一切都变成暧昧。小龟姐姐说，圣诞要去南京探某人，然后她说他们只是朋友，然后她笑得很复杂，然后我知道了暧昧是未成熟的爱情。去录影棚的时候，摄影师和王璐搭讪，然后她给了他QQ，然后她说虚荣心让她希望得到更多男生的关怀，然后我认识到了暧昧可以是爱情的附属品。再还有就是YELLOW FISH的爱情，今天收到他的信息，他说廖夏儿煮咖啡给他喝了。然后他说是他用请她看电影逼她亲手煮给他喝的，然后我才突然意识到，他对她的爱，（我一直为之感动），经过了那么多年的纠缠不清，已经变味，暧昧成了夭折的爱情。Sex and the City says we have sex but no romance; we have sex with friends and colleagues. That’s New York. And New York is New York. 在中国，广州，尽管我们和男性朋友看电影吃哈根达斯去江边看灯火辉煌，尽管有很多的Under water things，信念还是要坚持下去的，不是吗？即使不是，也要如伏尔泰说，我们必须创造一个上帝。
    去SOHO剪头发，理发师突然弯下腰对我说，你会找到爱情的，那些懂得欣赏你的人会发现你很美。